longsheng1221@163.com问:我的孩子快3岁了,脾气比较暴,一生气就对自己发狠,比如抓头发、打自己等。请问,这种情况如何处理才好?答:孩子的行为常常是父母行为方式的折射,如果父母情绪压抑时能以合理的方式去发泄,就会为孩子做出榜样。一旦发现孩子有自虐倾向,父母不但要努力寻找并消除孩子生活中的压抑源,养成耐心听孩子讲话的习惯,让 longsheng1221@163.com Q: My child is almost 3 years old, temper more violent, angry on their own hard, such as scratching the hair, playing themselves and so on. Excuse me, how can this be handled? A: Children’s behavior is often refraction of the behavior of their parents. If parents can vent their emotions in a reasonable manner when they are depressed, they will set an example for their children. Once found that children have a self-torture tendency, parents should not only strive to find and eliminate the repressed sources of children’s life, to develop the patience to listen to the child’s speech habits, let