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这位母亲的来信长达万言(限于篇幅,只能摘登一小部分。后面的几篇文章中还将有所提及),并且就在本刊组稿的过程中,这位母亲还多次打电话来咨询,她的无奈和焦虑让我们动容。为了帮助她找出问题的症结,我们约请了三位专家为她把脉。虽然今天在这儿讨论的仅仅是一个特殊的个案,但是这个案例所折射出来的东西值得我们反思。育儿过程中不断出现的危机和问题让年轻的父母们焦虑不已,这种焦虑甚至可能相伴我们一生。育儿的过程不仅仅是孩子成长的过程,也是我们自己成长的过程。我们是否想过,或许是我们自己给孩子制造了问题?轻松点,相信成长的自然规律,相信孩子,相信自己。
The mother’s letter up to ten thousand words (limited to space, can only pick a small part of the following several articles will be mentioned), and in the process of publishing his journal, the mother several times Call to consult, her frustration and anxiety let us move. To help her find out the crux of the problem, we asked three experts to give her the pulse. Although only a special case is discussed here today, the things reflected in this case deserve our reflection. Emerging crises and problems in parenting keep young parents anxious and may even be with us throughout their lives. The process of childcare is not just the process of child growth, but also our own growth process. Have we ever thought we may have created problems for our children? Easily, believe in the natural laws of growth, believe in children and believe in ourselves.