作为一名班主任老师兼家长,常听家长们聊,现在的孩子真难教,说什么都不听。初高中的孩子正处在青春期,非常叛逆,如果稍有不如意,或者一句话说重了,就有可能剑拔弩张,脸红脖子粗。那怎么办呢?孔子说,教育学生要因材施教。其实,我认为,为人父母,对于自己的孩子也应该如此。如果我们想要与自己的孩子有很好的沟通,首先要了解孩子身上有哪些特点,他喜欢什么,不喜欢什么。遇到问题,一般他会怎么处理。了解了这些之后,作 As a class teacher and parents, parents often talk about chatting, and now the children really difficult to teach, say nothing. Junior high school children are in adolescence, very rebellious, if a little unhappy, or a word heavy, it is possible tense, thick neck and neck. What to do? Confucius said, education students should teach students according to their aptitude. Actually, I think parents should be the same for their own children. If we want to have good communication with our children, we must first understand what the child has, what he likes, and what he does not like. In case of problems, he will usually deal with it. After understanding these, make