从我上小学起,爸爸老拿我和他小时候比,他越比越觉得我不如他,越比越觉得我不争气,越比越觉得我不懂事。他不是说:我小时候像你这么大,就帮奶奶干活。等奶奶回来,我地也扫完了,饭也弄好了,连桌子也擦于净。你看看你自己。”要么就是说:“我小时侯学习比你好多了,学习成绩也是班上前10名,甚至第一名。”妈妈更有一套。她老拿我和同事家的孩子比“:你看人家某某的孩子考上了某中学,人家学习那么好,你看看你,只要有人家的一半,我就心满意足了。”妈妈唠叨个没完,可她却不知道,她的每一句话,像一把尖刀,刺破了我的自尊与自信。朋友们,你们呢,是否也是在“比”中过日子?谈谈你们的情况和感受。如果能有什么好建议,也请贡献出来吧。话题作者:孤独 Since I was in primary school, my father took me and his childhood, the more than the more I feel better than him, the more I feel that I do not live up to expectations, the more I feel more ignorant. He does not mean: When I was young, I was like you so much to help my grandmother work. And so my grandmother came back, and I swept away, and the meal was made, even the table was wiped clean. You look at yourself. Either: “I was a lot better at learning than I was when I was young, and my academic performance was the top 10 or even the top in the class. ”Mom has a more .She always took me and my colleagues at home than the children:“ You see someone's certain child admitted to a middle school, people learn so well, you look at you, as long as half the people, I am content It's ”Mom nagging over, but she does not know, every word of her, like a sharp knife, pierced my self-esteem and self-confidence.Friends, do you also live in the“ than ”? your situation and feel if there is any good suggestions, please contribute it out of topic: loneliness