作为一个有生命的个体,他总会对外界的事物做出反应。在面临冲突的时候,心理学家的研究表明我们人类大致有３种应付方式:或者去寻求积极的解决问题的方法,或者对事件仅仅做出情绪上的反应,或者采取回避问题的方式去解决问题。毋庸置疑,积极的解决问题的方式是最有效的,同时它也 As a living individual, he always responds to the outside world. In the face of conflicts, psychologists' research shows that there are roughly three ways we can deal with human beings: either by finding a positive solution to the problem or by merely responding emotionally to the incident or by avoiding the problem problem. Needless to say, the most effective way to solve a problem is at the same time as it is