很多时候,醋意来自于爱意,也来自于不安全感。有个男人写信问我:“为什么我的女朋友爱吃醋?我想要一份不吃醋的爱情,这要求很过分吗?”我回信:“为什么你的女朋友无权吃醋?你想要一个没有荷尔蒙分泌的女人,这要求不过分吗?”不管你愿不愿意,这世上,许多东西是捆绑在一起,无法拆开的,比如生和死、得和失、快乐和痛苦、恋爱和吃醋。爱情若不吃醋,那么,意味着两个人接吻的时候肾上腺素不会上升、心跳不会加速、手心不会冒汗、相处成为习惯、爱情变成亲情、彼此没有感觉、做爱变成功课…… Very often, jealousy comes from love, but also from insecurity. A man wrote to ask me: “Why my girlfriend is jealous? I want a jealous love, this requirement is too much?” “I reply: ” Why your girlfriend is not entitled to jealous? Do you want a woman who does not have hormones to excuse me? “” Whatever you want or not, in this world, many things are bound together and can not be separated, such as life and death, gain and loss, happiness and Pain, love and jealousy. If love is not jealous, then, means that when two people kissing adrenaline does not rise, heart rate will not be accelerated, palms will not sweat, become accustomed to become friends, love become affection, each other without feeling, sex becomes homework ... ...