在谈到教育孩子要一致时,家庭教育指导者差不多都异口同声地对家长说:“不能一个唱‘黑脸’,一个唱‘白脸’。”这个说法对不对呢?我以为这个说法是不对的。因为“教育孩子要一致”,这说的是“教育原则”;而“黑脸”、“白脸”之说,指的是教育方法,两者说的根本不是一码事,它们两者形不成一对矛盾。这种说法实际上是把“方式方法的灵活性”和“教育原则的坚定性”对立起来了。 When it comes to educating their children, family education leaders almost unanimously say to their parents: “One can not sing black face, one sing ’white face.’” Is not that true? I do not think this is correct of. Since “educating children to be consistent” means “principles of education,” “black-faced” and “white-faced” say it refers to the method of education. The two are not the same thing at all. Both of them Not a contradiction. This argument actually sets the “flexibility of methods and methods” against the “firmness of educational principles.”