在班主任日常工作中,常常会碰到这样一个情形,当学生犯了错而班主任立即去批评教育他时,会发现教育的效果往往并不尽如人意,有的师生关系甚至从此紧张。卡耐基在《人性的弱点》中说:“批评就像家鸽,它们会叫回来的。如果你我明天要造成一种历经数十年直到死亡才消失的反感,只要轻轻吐出一句恶毒的评语就够了。”所以,班主任工作要慎用批评教育。 In the class teacher’s daily work, often encounter such a situation, when the students make a mistake and the teacher immediately criticized him, you will find that the effectiveness of education is often not satisfactory, and some even the tension between teachers and students. Carnegie said in “Human Weaknesses”: “Criticism is like a pigeon and they’ll call it back.If you and I tomorrow are going to create an aversion to disappearing for decades until it dies, just spit out a vicious Comment is enough. ”So, class teacher work should be used with caution education.