我是个农村出身的孩子,对于社交一事从小就略知一二,这来自于广泛而众多的亲友。但也有很明显的心理缺陷,就是觉得自己和那些都市与大户人家出身的孩子相比有某种先天的不足。当然从小也知道这样的事情没有办法,所以好好学习几乎成为自己出头的唯一途径。而在大学呢,就知道应该在好好学习之外,还要勤奋地做事,很多的人是在做事时认识的,也不是奔着人去的,也有很多人是欣赏我做的事情而来认识我的。而我又是一个有心人,很认真地总结其中的一些缘由与道理,合适的放大不合适的放弃,这样渐渐地在社交上有点长进。 I am a child born in rural areas. I knew a little about social issues from an early age, from a wide range of relatives and friends. But there are obvious psychological defects, that is, they feel that there are some inherent deficiencies compared with those born in cities and large families. Of course, I also knew that there was no such thing as an early age, so studying hard is almost the only way to succeed in your own life. At university, I knew that I should study hard and work diligently. Many people are aware of what they do when they are doing things. They do not go to people, and many people appreciate what I do mine. And I am a caring person, very seriously summarize some of the reasons and truth, the appropriate enlargement inappropriate to give up, so gradually a little social progress.