古往今来,很多人都认为,“忍耐”会给人们的生活带来这样那样的好处。诸如“小不忍,则乱大谋”“忍字头上一把刀,忍得住来逞英豪”“有理让三分,冤家也成亲”等等,然而,“忍耐”真的像人们说的那样“美妙”吗?事情恐怕不止这么简单。文学名著《红楼梦》就描述了大观园中的懦 Throughout the ages, many people believe that “patience” will bring benefits to people’s lives in this way. Such as “can not bear, then chaos ” “bearing a knife on the word, tolerate to come to the British hero ”“’s reason to make three-point, the family also married” and so on, however, “bear ”Is it really like people saying “wonderful”? It’s probably more than that. The literary masterpiece “Dream of Red Mansions” describes the tricks in the Grand View Garden.