曾经有很多位朋友问我相同一个问题:父辈们大多都是通过媒妁之约和父母之命结的婚,他们之间并没有经过恋爱,甚至是对对方毫无了解,但结婚后他们却能比我们这一代人过得幸福和快乐,婚姻也要比我们现代人稳定得多,这究竟是为什么?对于这个问题的答案,我认为是多方面的。它应该包括人们观念的保守、物质的匮乏、人员的流动不大、女性思想的未觉醒和爱的表达方式不同,这五个方面的原因。 Many friends once asked me the same question: most of my fathers are married through the contract of the media and the parents. They do not have any love or even know nothing about each other. But after marriage, they can What is the reason why we live happier and happier than our generation, and marriages are much more stable than our modern people? I think there are many ways to answer this question. It should include people’s conservative ideas, material deprivation, staff turnover is not large, women’s awakening and love of different ways of expression, these five reasons.