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据推算,我国目前失偶独居的人数约有八千万,这个数字够惊人的了! 对男方来说,失偶所表现的痛苦,是以配偶死后的6个月内为最严重;对女方来说,以第一年最严重.除了感情上的巨大波动外,由于个人独居的寂寞对他或她会形成一种伤害,而使他们“心碎欲裂”.有些失偶者借烟酒消愁解闷,从而使健康受到损害,降低了抵抗疾病的能力. 一个人有时思想不通,这时如果有个亲戚或朋友劝解,便会立即消除不良情绪.因此失偶者应重新寻找配偶以弥补独居生活的孤寂;也可以培养个人爱好,如文学、艺术、绘画、书法、养花、钓鱼、烹调等,以改变平淡的独居生活.总之,思想愉快
It is estimated that there are about 80 million people currently living in spite of being widowed in our country. This figure is staggering. For the man, the pain caused by the spouse’s death is the most serious within 6 months after the death of his spouse. In the first year, the woman is the most serious, and in addition to the great emotional fluctuation, her loneliness is caused by the loneliness of an individual living alone or by her Alcohol eliminate worry boredom, so that health damage, reduce the ability to resist disease.One person sometimes thought of nowhere, then if there is a relative or friend to persuade, it will immediately eliminate bad emotions.So the spouse should re-search for spouses To make up for the loneliness of living alone.It also can cultivate personal hobby, such as literature, art, painting, calligraphy, flower-growing, fishing, cooking, etc., to change the plain living alone.