近日,号称“情感奶爸”的情感作家陆琪在微博上宣布,在最新一部作品之后,他将不再出版爱情情感类工具书。说到工具书,多数人首先会想到《新华字典》、《现代汉语词典》等,至于爱情里的工具书,按理应该是类似的规程——解词释义,教人如何去做。没错,这位情感作家,也是这样做的,看看他的两则语录——“一个女人受不受宠爱,跟她有多好没关系。只是看她有多可怜。这种可怜也不是真有的,而是表现出来的。说白了,想要人宠你,先要学会装可怜。” Recently, Lu Qi, an emotional writer known as “Emotion Daddy,” announced on Weibo that he will no longer publish a book on his love and affection after his latest work. When it comes to tools, most people think of “Xinhua Dictionary” and “Modern Chinese Dictionary” first. As for the reference books in love, it should be a similar procedure - interpretation of words and how to do it. Yes, the emotional writer does the same, look at his two quotations- "It does not matter how good a woman is without being favored, just how pitiful she is. Not really, but demonstrated. To put it plainly, you want people to pet you, we must first learn to install poor.