美国大学素来给人自由包容的印象,但在处理师生关系方面,严厉程度超出很多人的想象。在美国,非但师生恋是被严格禁止的,任何可能导致校园性骚扰的暖昧举动,都作为被禁止的条目详细地列在校园守则中。以伯克利大学为例,伦理课程对于“性骚扰”的定义无比严苛——任何关于性的口头的,非口头的,或是肢体接触;任何对于性的言论或行为,使教室里的任何一个人感到不快;任何对于性的倾向, American universities have always given people a free and inclusive impression, but the handling of the relationship between teachers and students, the severity of many people’s imagination. In the United States, not only teacher-student love is strictly prohibited, but any ambiguous move that may lead to sexual harassment on campus is listed in detail in the campus code as a banned entry. In the case of Berkeley, the ethics curriculum is extremely harsh on the definition of “sexual harassment” - any verbal, nonverbal, or physical contact with sex; anything that is sexual about speech or behavior that makes any A person feel unhappy; any tendency toward sexuality,