奥尼尔母亲的话: “教育一个孩子非常困难。如果放纵他,以后便很难再好好管教。我们尽了最大的努力教育沙克。但有时还是害怕他不能按我们的意愿成长。交流在我和孩子们中间起了重要的作用,我们用谈心取代责骂和叫嚷。但有时最重要的是祈祷,我们常为沙克祈祷。 O’Neill’s mother said: "It is very difficult to educate a child. If you indulge him, it will be very difficult to discipline again. We did our best to educate Shaq, but sometimes he feared he could not grow as we intended. We played an important role among us, and we used discourses to replace scolding and shouting, but sometimes the most important thing is praying, and we often pray for Shaq.