有的父母在顺心顺气之时,对孩子的教育颇耐心。他们晓之以理,循循善诱。可是在精神状态不佳,或累或乏之时,就不大注意了。他们或打或骂,或说一些很不该说的话,在孩子纯洁幼小的心灵里投下几道不易抹去的暗影,使孩子的健康成长受到不应有的影响。比如,有一位母亲平时对孩子要求很严,这孩子时时处处讲文明、讲礼貌,受到人们的称赞。有一天,他们母子俩出门。上火车后,解放军叔叔给他们让座。孩 Some parents are patient in their children’s education when they are naturally satisfied. They know the reason and follow the temptation. However, when the mental state is poor, or tired or lack of time, not pay attention. When they hit or scold or say something that should not be said, they cast a few ineffable shades in the innocent and young minds of children to unduly influence their healthy growth. For example, a mother usually has strict demands on her children, who are always civilized, polite and praised by people. One day, they go out. After getting on the train, the PLA Uncle gave them a seat. child