对别人慷慨,就是对自己慷慨。比如这位农夫,助人即是助己。在美国南部的一个州,每年都会举行南瓜品种大赛,选出最优秀的南瓜品种,授予大奖。有一个农夫成绩非常优异,他常常是头等奖的得主。他得奖之后,会把他的优秀品种的南瓜籽分给街坊邻居。有一位邻居很惊讶地问他:“你的奖项得来不易, Be generous to others is to be generous to yourself. For example, this farmer, to help others is to help themselves. In a state in the southern United States, pumpkin variety competitions are held each year, and the best pumpkin varieties are selected for the grand prize. A farmer has a very good grade and he is often the winner of the first prize. After winning the prize, he will hand over his excellent variety of pumpkin seeds to his neighbors. A neighbor was very surprised to ask him: ”Your award was not easy,