很小的时候.奶奶曾给我讲过这样一个故事:桌上有三个苹果,吃了一个,佛祖问他的弟子还有几个苹果。弟子回答说还有两个。佛祖摇摇头说:“有三个呢!两个在外面,一个在里面。”佛祖指指肚子。当时我还小.不太懂其中的意思。到今天.我才慢慢明白其中的寓意:失去是另一种形式的 When I was very young, my grandmother had told me such a story: There were three apples on the table and I had one. The Buddha asked his disciples and several apples. The disciples answered that there are two more. The Buddha shook his head and said: “There are three! Two outside and one inside.” Buddha points to his stomach. At the time I was still young. I didn’t quite understand what it meant. To this day, I slowly understand what it means: Loss is another form of