孩子到了3岁左右,他们的思维方式已逐渐成熟,此时的孩子对自己的言行有了一定的见解,心理发展往往是以自我为中心,表现出独立的愿望。很多时候大人要这样做,他偏偏要那样做,显得不太听话了。也许你会认为这是孩子的逆反心理,其实这是孩子思维走向成熟,独立性开始发展的一个标志,也是孩子心理成长的一个过程,我们称之为心理上的“第一反抗期”。而这个时期表现突出的就是孩子自我意识开始发展,喜欢做自己爱做的事情,不希望别人干涉,一旦遭到 Children reach about 3 years old, their way of thinking has gradually matured, this time the children have some insight into their own words and deeds, psychological development is often self-centered, showing an independent desire. Many times adults want to do so, he chose to do that, it seems not obedient. Perhaps you will think this is the child’s rebellious psychology, in fact, this is a sign of the child’s thinking matures, the independence began to develop, but also a process of psychological development of children, we call the psychological “first resistance period” . The outstanding performance of this period is the child self-awareness began to develop, like to do what you love to do, do not want others to interfere, once suffered