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丰子恺在他的《作客者言》中描述了一组某客人遭主人“虐待”的镜头:譬如主人拿了一根不及半寸长的火柴为客人点烟,弄得大家仓皇失措:把客人未必喜欢吃的菜蔬堆到饭碗里,使客人无法下著;强夺客人的饭碗去添饭,使客人吃得停食;藏过客人行囊,使客人不得告辞……诸如此类情形,在所谓的“热情好客”的主人眼里绝不成其“虐待”,他甚至还会对此津津乐道。而事实上,他却扮演了一个“虐待他人”的角色,诚然这完全出于一个良好的动机。所以,站在人道精神的高度,我们暂不妨称其为“优待的虐待”。
In his Guest Talk, Feng Zikai described a shot of a group of guests who were “abuse” by their owners: For example, the owner took a less than half-inch match to light cigarettes for the guests, causing everyone to panic: The guests may not like to eat the vegetables piled into the rice bowl, so that guests can not go down; grab the guests’s rice bowls to add rice, so that guests eat too much food; possession of guest bags, so that guests are not allowed to leave ... ... such situations, in the so-called “ The owner of a hospitable person will never be ”abuse“ in his eyes, and he will even talk about it. In fact, he played a role of “abusing others”. It is true that this is a good motive. Therefore, standing at the height of the humanitarian spirit, we may wish to call it ”privileged abuse."