“男人保护并养活家庭,女人协助男人井照看子女,这是自从远古的时代就形成的风俗.因此说,自然本能滋生出生活习性,经过约定俗成的过程,最终导致婚姻这一社会制度的确立.”从此以后,有的人咒骂婚姻,有的人抨击婚姻,有的人赞扬婚姻.诗人、小说家们更是把婚姻作为他们创作的重要主题之一,对之进行深入探索和细腻的 “It is customary for men to protect and feed their families and women to help men and children to take care of their children, and this is the custom that has developed since ancient times.” Therefore, the natural instinct has given birth to habits of life and, through conventions and processes, has finally led to the establishment of a social system of marriage. Since then, some people curse marriage, others criticize the marriage, some people praise the marriage.Peters and novelists even put marriage as one of their major themes of creation, to carry out in-depth exploration and delicate