记得那天的茶楼聚会,在场的一个女孩硬要钻牛角尖,要求几位男士作出非此即彼的选择:生命与爱情哪个更重要?我早不耐烦玩这种非此即彼的排他性极强的游戏。早年听说有一道题可以评判出男人对妻子的爱的程度,就是那个众所周知的故事:妈、孩子、老婆一起掉进河里去了,问他先救哪个?记得我丈夫气急败坏地说:“我他妈的先自杀行不行?”因为无论他先救哪个,都有一大堆话在等着。虽然颇感无聊,但我仍然比较在意易威当时是怎么回答的,因为 I remember the day of the party gathering, the presence of a girl insist on cutting-edge, asking a few men to make a non-alternative: life and love which is more important? I am impatient to play this non-exclusive or extremely exclusive game . In the early years I heard that there was a question that judged the man’s love of his wife. That is the well-known story: Mom, children and wives went down into the river together and asked him which one to save first. Remember my husband said angrily: “I fucking commit suicide?” "No matter what he first saved, there is a lot of words waiting. Although quite boring, but I am still more concerned about how Yi Wei was answered, because