由于高中生在人际交往中的不成熟性,互相分享秘密然后又在无意中伤害对方的事情是难免发生的。他们对一些小事情可以无所谓,却容不得别人的背叛与伤害,特别是自己的朋友。当被伤害时,往往采取绝交甚至报复等处理方法,给双方都造成很大的伤害。原因有二:一为习惯性做法,他们本 Because of the immaturity of high school students in interpersonal communication, sharing of secrets with each other and inadvertently hurting each other is inevitable. They do not care about small things, but they cannot tolerate the betrayal and harm of others, especially their own friends. When they are injured, they often resort to methods such as renunciation and even revenge, which cause great harm to both parties. There are two reasons: one is customary and they are