退休工程师叶梦莲从理解到认可,再到支持,慢慢意识到中国家长爱孩子的局限性:有比较才有鉴别,洋儿媳的方法值得学……好心当成驴肝肺2015年11月初的一天晚上,儿媳Cherry忽然敲开了我的房门,犹豫了片刻说:“婆婆,有件事我想来想去,觉得还是应该跟您商量一下:您能不为自己,而是只为了Abby才爱他吗?” Retired engineer Ye Menglian from understanding to recognition, and then to support, slowly aware of the limitations of Chinese parents love their children: a comparison was identified, the method of foreign daughter worth learning ... ... kindly as a donkey liver and lungs early November 2015 one night, daughter-in-law Cherry suddenly knocked on my door and hesitated for a moment saying: “Mother, there’s one thing I’ve got to think about, or should I talk to you about it: can you love him only for Abby, but for Abby? ? ”