“我‘认为’自己做得很棒,可我‘感觉’自己做得其实没那么好。”人们常常这样形容自己。不难发现,当一个人讲自己的优点时,他通常以“我认为”开头,比如“我认为自己是一个好学生”;但说自己的不足时,却多以“我感觉”开头,比如“我感觉自己不善于交际”。这是否暗示“认为”或者“感觉”这一措辞上的微小变化,与人们的自我评价存在某种关系?来自波尔州立大学的心理学教授托马 “I think ’I’m good at doing it myself, but I feel it’s not so good.’” People often describe themselves as such. It is not hard to see that when one speaks about his own strengths, he usually begins with “I think ”, such as “I think I am a good student ”; Feel “at the beginning, such as ” I feel myself not good at communication “. Does this imply that small changes in the notion of ”think “ or ”feeling " have something to do with the self-evaluation of people? Thomas, a psychology professor at Ball State University