孔子说:刚毅木讷,近仁;又说:巧言令色,鲜矣仁。意思是:刚强、坚毅和大智若愚的迟钝、讷言,是接近仁的品格;而伶牙利齿,巧言悦人,或者笑脸相迎,曲意奉承的人,少有仁德。孔子这种把人的性格特点和处世态度与道德品质联翁起来评价人的观点,初看近乎武断,但验之历史,又不乏令人信服的事例。“汉之飞将军”李广是历史上著名 Confucius said: resolute and vigorous, near Ren; added: clever remark, fresh Jensen. The meaning is: rigid, perseverance and wisdom of the sluggish, naive, is close to the human character; and Lingti teeth, clever pleasing, or smiling face, flattering people, little benevolence. This view of Confucius, who put people’s personality traits and attitudes and moral qualities together, at first glance, is almost arbitrary. However, there is no lack of convincing examples of history. “General Han Fei ” Li Guang is famous in history