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有这样一个寓言故事耐人寻味:一群人分食一块蛋糕,一开始大家碍于面子,相互揖让,突然,风吹灯灭,屋子里漆黑一片。等再度灯火通明,大家都面面相觑。原来,每个人都想趁灯灭后浑水摸鱼,蛋糕上布满了贪婪的手印。其实,这则寓言是一个关于他律与自律的隐喻。如果把蛋糕看做“欲望”的投射,而把灯光当作“监督”的方式,当“欲望”缺少内心约束时,一旦外在监督不复存在,它就会诱使人逾矩失范,突破底线。也就是说,在他律的留白处、边界外,自律发挥着至关重要的
There is such a fable story intriguing: a group of people eat a piece of cake, from the beginning due to face everyone, let each other, suddenly, the wind blows off, the house was dark. Once again brightly lit, we all looked at each other. It turned out that everyone wanted to take advantage of the light after the fish in troubled waters, cake full of greedy handprints. In fact, this parable is a metaphor for his discipline and self-discipline. If the cake is seen as the projection of “desire ” and the light is treated as “supervisor ”, when the “desire” lacks inner restraint, it will induce the external supervisor to lure it out People over a loss of style, breaking the bottom line. In other words, self-discipline plays a crucial role in the lawlessness and the border