性生活是夫妻双方共同参与的事情,任何一方出现问题,都会给正常的性生活亮起“红灯”。性生活出现问题的原因很多,比如对性生活认识的差异,对性的偏好特点,甚至年龄和生理上的差异等等。因此,要想维系好夫妻婚后共同筑就的性爱长城,还真得需要夫妻拾柴、添砖加瓦,学会一些应对“红灯”的对策。 Sexual life is a matter of mutual participation of both husband and wife, any one of the problems, will give normal sex life “red light ”. There are many reasons for sexual problems, such as differences in understanding of sexual life, sexual preference, and even age and physical differences and so on. Therefore, in order to maintain a good husband and wife married to build the Great Wall of love, really need couples to collect firewood, build brick, learn some “red light” countermeasures.