在2009年的高校招生现场咨询会上,我看到,家长远远多于考生。不少考生表示,对于选报哪所高校、读啥专业、将来干啥工作都很茫然,填报志愿只好“我的青春由爸妈做主”。许多孩子主动放弃了对未来的选择,把权利全部交给家长。我认为出现此情况,有三方面原因。一是孩子从小到大,家长包办代替为孩子做选择,使孩子失去自主管理、自主规划的能力与 In the 2009 college admissions on-site consulting session, I saw that parents are far more than candidates. Many candidates said that for the election of which colleges and universities, what specialty to read, what work in the future are very dazed, filling volunteer had “my youth by the parents to be the master ”. Many children voluntarily gave up their choices about the future and handed over all their rights to their parents. I think there are three reasons for this. First, children from small to large, parents instead of making choices for children, so that children lose their ability to independently manage the capacity of independent planning