怯懦的孩子显著增多,是一个令人担优的问题。从小怯懦,会影响孩子的身心健康发展。从本质上看怯懦属于儿童的心理异常,不是单纯的个性问题,应及早采取有效措施,予以矫正。越早进行矫正,效果越好。前苏联教育家马卡连柯曾经说过:“你想害死你的孩子吗?请给他一剂足够的幸福,这就可以了。”过分保护是儿童形成怯懦心理的主要原因,因此,必须从改善教养方法入手。过分保护是在大人怕孩子吃苦、受累的思想支配下产生的,大人“怕”字当头,不让干这,不让做那,孩子逐渐地养成胆小、怕事的性格。改变孩子的怯懦心理,首先就要改掉大人的过 The remarkable increase of timid children is a very good question. Childhood cowardice, will affect the child’s physical and mental health development. In essence, cowardice belongs to the psychological abnormalities of children and is not merely a matter of personality. Early effective measures should be taken to correct it. The earlier the correction, the better. Former Soviet Union educator Makarenko once said: “Do you want to kill your child? Give him a dose of enough happiness.” Overprotection is the main reason children develop cowardice, Therefore, we must start from improving education methods. Overprotection is grown up in the adults afraid of their children suffer, under the thought of being involved, adult “afraid ” the word, not to do this, not to do that, children gradually develop timid, afraid of the character. Change the child’s cowardice, we must first get rid of adults