在家庭教育中,我们常常会碰到孩子批评不得、批评后不以为然、我行我素、甚至顶嘴的表现。批评孩子一定要让孩子做到心服口服,这样才能达到教育孩子的目的,所以批评孩子时一定要讲究方法。我国著名教育家陶行知先生曾说过一段话,他说:“在教育孩子时,批评比表扬还要高深,因为批评一定要讲究方法,这是一门艺术,你用得好它比表扬的效果还有用。”因此,在教育孩子上,处处留心皆学问。 In family education, we often encounter the child’s disagreement, criticism after displeasure, go its own course, and even talk about performance. Criticize children must make children convinced, so as to achieve the purpose of educating children, so when criticizing children must pay attention to methods. Mr. Tao Xingzhi, a famous educator in our country, once said something: “When we educate our children, criticism is even more profound than commendation because criticism must pay attention to methods. This is an art. You use it better than praising it The effect is still useful. ”Therefore, in the education of children, always attentive to learn.