在我的陕北家乡,有这样一句俗话,道是:“蒋家的外甥,夸得骂不得。”意思是说,小娃娃家嘛,都喜欢听人夸奖,不喜欢被人骂来骂去。其实,大人也是这样子的。无论多么有名的人,都愿意自己的名气更大,都愿意被更多的人欣羡和追捧;无论多么有权的人,都希望自己的权力更大,都希望被更多的人崇拜和赞美。 In my hometown of northern Shaanxi, there is a saying like this: “The nephew of Chiang Kai-shek boasted of being scolded.” The meaning is that the little doll’s family likes to praise people and does not like to be scolded Scolded go. In fact, adults are like this. No matter how famous, are willing to own a greater reputation, are willing to be more envy and sought after by others; no matter how powerful people, want their own greater power, are hoping to be more people worship and praise .