孩子成长的过程中,免不了会遇到各种问题。不要急着插手,应该先问孩子八个问题,听听他们有什么想法。其实通常问不到几个问题,事情就已经解决了。第一个问题是“:发生什么事情了?”这个问题看起来不起眼,但是非常重要。许多大人碰到突发状况时,会习惯性太快做判断“:一定是你先 Children grow up, will inevitably encounter various problems. Do not rush to intervene, should first ask the child eight questions, listen to what they have ideas. In fact, we usually can not ask a few questions and things have already been solved. The first question is: “What happened?” The issue looks inconsiderable, but it is very important. Many adults encounter unexpected situations, will be too fast to judge habitual: "must be your first