快乐是一种心理感受。同样的事,有了不同的心理感受,便会有截然不同的效果。在困苦中,一个乐观的人,仍能苦中寻乐;而悲观的人却会觉得苦不堪言。 例如,在一个夏天,有两个人住在一个旅馆里。旅馆实在太简陋了,蚊子东飞西撞。其中一个人觉得无法睡眠,心里十分烦躁,难以忍受;而另一个却安然自若,虽然没有睡着,但却不断地扭动身子,不让蚊子落在自己身上。 那个心里烦躁者见状,便问那个泰然自若者说:“蚊子这么多,你怎么还是那样平静,好像和蚊子戏耍一样?” “这很简单,蚊子是多了些,但是我们毕竟在这深山老林中有一个歇脚的地方;如果没有这个简陋的旅馆,我们不是要在外面露宿吗?再说,这里的蚊子虽多, Happiness is a psychological feeling. The same thing, with different psychological feelings, will have a completely different effect. In the midst of hardship, an optimistic person can still find happiness while the pessimist feels miserable. For example, in a summer, two people live in a hotel. Hotel is too simple, mosquito hit East Fei West. One of them feels unable to sleep, his heart is very irritable, unbearable; and the other is safe, although not asleep, but constantly wriggling the body, so that mosquitoes fell on themselves. The heart irritable saw him, then asked the calm said: “mosquito so much, how do you still so calm, like mosquitoes and playing the same?” "This is very simple, the mosquito is more, but after all, in this deep-seated forest There is a rest in the place; Without this shabby hotel, we are not sleeping outside it? Besides, mosquitoes here are numerous,