比起旧时养孩子的很多观念和做法,这些年来人们更多地倡导“多与孩子沟通”。可能是现在的父母有时间沟通,有心情沟通,有内容沟通了吧,父母与孩子的对话多了,态度和蔼了,愿意做朋友了,据前几年的一个调查显示,父母与子女的关系呈现越来越融洽的趋势。但是,就像《父母必读》25年的历史一样,这一代父母不过是改革开放以后成长起来的第一代父母,我们身上还承袭着上一代乃至上两代父 Compared with many old ideas and practices of raising children, people have been advocating “more communication with their children” in recent years. It may be that parents now have time to communicate, to communicate with each other, to communicate with others, to have more dialogues between parents and children, to be kind and willing to be friends. According to a survey of previous years, the relationship between parents and children Showing a more and more harmonious trend. However, just like the 25-year history of “parents must read”, this generation of parents is only the first generation of parents that grew up after the reform and opening up. We also inherit the past generation and even the two generations of fathers