处世有处世的分寸,处世的分寸把握得当,就显得成熟、高尚,有修养,否则就显得稚嫩和浅薄。把握处世的分寸自然颇有讲究,处理处世的“远”和“近”的关系,似在“分寸”之列。确立目标,不必好高骛远,不切实际。所谓“一生磨一镜”,目标单纯些,理想放低些,成功会离你更近些。 Living in the world’s sense of proportion, grasping the attitude of life properly, it appears mature, noble, self-cultivation, otherwise it appears immature and superficial. It is natural to grasp the sense of proportionality in life. To deal with the relationship between “distant” and “near” living things in the world seems to be in the “sense of proportion”. Setting goals does not have to be ambitious and impractical. The so-called “life of a mirror,” a simple goal, the ideal lower, the success will be closer to you.