“今天作业多吗?”“中午吃的什么?”恐怕是大多数家长在孩子放学后都要问的问题,但这些问题可能永远无法走进孩子的内心。家长们往往过于关心孩子健康、学习情况,而忽视对孩子内心和情感层面的关注,又或想关注却无所适从。放学后,这个和孩子交流的最佳时间要怎样把握?每天问孩子4个问题,10分钟帮孩子挖掘潜力,帮他建立正确的价值观,并让他感受到家长的爱。 “What do you eat today?” “I am afraid that most parents ask questions after their children have gone to school, but these problems may never go into the child’s heart.” Parents tend to be too concerned about the health and learning of their children, while neglecting their children’s inner and emotional levels of concern, or trying to find out what they are doing. After school, what is the best time to communicate with your child? Ask 4 questions each day, 10 minutes to help your child tap the potential, help him establish the correct values, and let him feel the love of parents.