记得第一次下地插秧时,母亲将我领到水田边,帮我拉好秧绳,抛下几个秧把子,转身就走了。我问她怎么插秧,她说,别人怎么插,你就怎么插。我多次央求父亲教我游泳,每次都遭到他的拒绝,他的理由永远是:这还需要教吗?我让他教我捕鱼方法,教我制作“棺材弓”抓黄鼠狼,他总是说,不用教,你慢慢就会了。还真是这样,所有这些本领,我自然而然就会了。在农村,很少有什么技艺是被教会的,农事如此,游戏如此,待人接物、迎来送往的礼仪也是如此。大人挂在嘴边上的一句话是:需要教的孩子是不会有出息的。相 I remember the first time under the transplanting, the mother brought me to the edge of the paddy field, help me pull the rope seedlings, throwing a few seedlings, turned and left. I asked her how to transplanted rice, she said, how others inserted, how do you plug. I begged my father many times to teach me to swim, and he was rejected every time. His reason is always: Do you still need to teach? I asked him to teach me how to fish and how to make “coffin bow” He always said, do not teach, you will slowly. Really is the case, all these skills, I naturally will. In the countryside, there is very little skill to be taught, so are farming, games, hospitality, and rituals. One word hanging on the lips of an adult is that children who need to teach will not be able to make a difference. phase