呵斥、打骂,就能让孩子乖乖遵守家规吗?放任自流,孩子能控制自己的行为吗?规范与自由是一对矛盾体。什么时候该管,什么时候不该管?什么时候该严,什么时候该松?在家规的实际运用中,把握规矩的“度”,有张有弛,有严有松,才能让孩子既懂规矩又有自己的空间。八条必须遵守的家规妈 Scolding, playing scolding, we can let the child obediently observe the rules of the house? Let it be self-reliant, can the child control his behavior? Norms and freedom are a contradiction. When should the tube, when should not control? When the strict, when should the loose? In the actual use of the house rules, grasp the rules of “degree”, Zhang relaxation, there are strict loose, in order to allow children to understand the rules Have their own space. Eight must comply with the house rules mother