“一个受到太多制度、条例约束的学生,会逐渐从老师、家长手下的‘听差’,变成自身坏习惯的‘奴隶’。不是他心里不想摆脱,是他没有能力摆脱。”对学生的管理是不是管得越多越好?本文从教育工作中的实例入手,通过亲身经历,结合教育理论,阐明了作者的观点:教育学生时不应管得过多过细,应选择信任学生、尊重学生,该放手时且放手,让学生在自由的天地中创造自己的人生。 “A student who is bound by too many systems and regulations will gradually become a slave to his own bad habits from teachers and parents.” It is not his heart that he does not want to get rid of and he is incapable of getting rid of him. " The management of students is not to control the more the better? This article from the case of education work, through personal experience, combined with the theory of education, to clarify the author’s point of view: education students should not be too much too small, should choose to trust students Respect students, let go and let go, let students create their own life in a free world.