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你是“找借口者”吗某些问题,是不是有可能由“找借口综合征”所引起的?成功、满足的人在承认外在因素可能会影响成功的同时,也会倾向专注于自己的错误和失败,以及能从中学到什么。可以说,他们持有一个“内控制点”。不成功、不满足的人往往会将自己的失败归咎于他人。他们声称,他们的失败主要是因为老板坏、流程坏、产品低劣、种族歧视、性别歧视。他们会将恋情的失败,怪罪于他们的伴侣,他们会将自己不足的生活,怪罪于过往的坏事件、坏社会、坏运气。可以说,他们持有一个“外控制点”。
Are you an “excuse”? Some of the questions are not likely to be caused by “excuse syndromes.” Successful, satisfying people, while acknowledging that extrinsic factors may affect success, will also Tend to focus on their own mistakes and failures, and what they can learn from. It can be said that they hold a “control point”. Unsuccessful, unsatisfied people tend to blame others for their failure. They claimed that their failure was mainly caused by the bad boss, bad process, poor product, racism and gender discrimination. They will blame their failures on their romances for their partners, blaming their own inadequacies on past bad events, bad societies and bad luck. It can be said that they hold a “control point”.