知音难觅!但在你踏破铁鞋无觅处的同时,千万别忘了——千百年来,历代名人都对知音难觅感慨万千。不仅如此,就连普通大众也有同样的慨叹。为什么知音如此难觅呢?有研究者认为,这其中有两大原因,一是“好友圈子”限制着,因为人类的好友圈子一般不会超过150人;二是相互沟通阻隔着,因为即便是好友之间,因双方心理、态度、观念、个人经历以及自身素质等方面存在差异和差距,而且交流过程中,还有所处背景、交流时间和地点、交流媒介等客观因素的制约和影响,所以发展成为知音确实有一定难度。不过,人们也不必因此过分遗憾,因为现实生活中我们还有得来全不费工夫的“另类知音”——狗。 Wonderful hard to find! But when you step through the shoes can not find at the same time, do not forget - thousands of years, celebrities are hard-won complacency filled with emotion. Not only that, even the general public has the same lament. Why is so hard to find it? Some researchers think that there are two major reasons, one is “circle of friends ” is limited because the circle of human friends generally not more than 150 people; the second is blocking communication, because There are differences and gaps in the psychology, attitudes, concepts, personal experiences and qualities of both parties, even in the case of friends. In the process of communication, there are also the constraints of objective factors such as the background, the time and place of exchange, and the medium of communication Influence, so the development of a companion does have some degree of difficulty. However, people do not have to regret it too much, because in real life we ​​still have to spend all our time.