除了死亡,没有什么比孤独更令我们感到恐惧的了。我们对孤独的恐惧根深蒂固,如果让我们选择是独处还是与他人在一起,我们宁愿选择和众人在一起时的安全感,即便所付出的代价是和那些令人头痛、惹人厌烦、一无是处的人为伴。从孩提时代,我们就被训练得会接受这样的看法:独处时,我 Apart from death, there is nothing more fearful than loneliness. Our fear of loneliness is deeply ingrained. If we choose to be alone or with others, we would rather choose to be safe when we are with everyone, even if the price we pay is the headache, irritability, and uselessness of people. Companions. From childhood, we were trained to accept this view: When I was alone, I