我一直以为“三十而立”的“立”字有着沉甸甸的重量,尤其对于女人来说,30岁,只要一提起便交织着复杂的情绪。30岁,对于我那些剩女朋友来说,尽管事业渐入佳境,但依旧须面对真爱难觅的尴尬;30岁,对于我那些全职太太女伴来说,尽管儿女绕膝无挣钱压力,但依然要面对与社会脱节的惶恐;30岁,对于如我这样家庭事业都不缺的女人来说,一样五味杂陈,即便握住了家庭事业,依然握不住消逝的青 I have always thought that the word “立立” has a heavy weight, especially for a woman, who is 30 years old and intertwines complicated emotions just by mentioning it. 30 years old, for my remaining girlfriend, despite the getting better, but still have to face the embarrassment of hard-won love; 30-year-old, for my full-time wife and his wife, despite the children around the knee without money pressure, But I still have to face the fear of being out of touch with the society. At the age of 30, I am as fickle as a woman like me who is not lacking in family business. Even if I hold my family business, I still can not hold back the faded