我的儿子小刚,上小学四年级。因为他不肯把自己的宠物——动物自动型铅笔刀给另一个同学小胖墩儿,胖墩儿就声言要打他,并约定时间要跟小刚到校外去“较量”一番,吓得小刚不敢再上学了。当我了解这个情况后,就寻思着:若把情况告诉老师或胖墩儿的家长,可能会很快得到解决,这是照常规办事.也是一种息事宁人的做法。但是,孩子却失去了应付生活中一次挑战的机会。当他长到成年,如果遇到需要自己去捍卫自己的权利、应付矛盾的挑战时,就可能会软弱起来.从而感到惊慌失措。于是,我大胆地 My son Xiaogang, the fourth grade in primary school. Because he refused to put his pet - animal automatic pencil sharpener to another student chubby pier child, fat pier child claimed to fight him, and agreed to go to school with small outside to “contest” some, scare Little Gang did not dare to go to school again. When I understand this situation, I am wondering if it is a good idea to tell the teacher or the parents of a fat boy sooner rather than later. This is a normal practice. However, children have lost the opportunity to meet a challenge in life. When he reaches adulthood, he feels panic when he encounters the challenge of needing to defend himself by himself and to meet contradictory challenges. So, I am bold