60年代出生的孩子,有许多是跟在祖父母身边长大的,我也不例外。从出生直到十二岁,我对母亲一直很陌生,十三岁回到母亲身边时我已是个非常懂事的孩子了。然而对母亲却依然感情淡漠。因为感情的淡薄,对父母的批评就特别敏感。九岁时的那封信,现在想想当时母亲只不过语气重些,却令我十分难过。毕竟不曾朝夕相处过!也许母亲做梦也不会想到她对孩子一封信的处理态度会让孩子铭记一辈子。 Many of the children born in the 1960s grew up with their grandparents, and I am no exception. From birth until I was twelve, I was a stranger to my mother, and when I was 13, I was a very sensible boy. However, her mother is still feeling indifferent. Because of the weak feelings, the criticism of parents is particularly sensitive. At the age of nine, I was very sad now to think about the fact that my mother only stressed her tone at the time. After all, have not lived together overnight! Perhaps my mother will not dream of a letter to her child’s attitude will make the child bearing in mind the rest of my life.