前不久,笔者在走访一所中学时听说了这样一件事:该校一位语文老师在给她所教的初三毕业班学生布置作文时,出了这样一道题,让每个学生给自己的父母写一封信,说说自己毕业前的心里话。几天后,这位老师收到了一位家长的来信,随信还附上了她女儿写给母亲的一封信的复印件。这位家长在她给老师的信中这样写道:“读着女儿的信,我当时的心情既喜又忧。喜的是女儿真的长大了,已经懂得用自己的方法进行独立思考,懂得该如何维护只属于自己的一方心灵世界,也懂得了当属于自己的隐私受到侵犯时,应 Not long ago, when I visited a middle school, I heard of such a thing: When a language teacher at the school arranged the composition for the third year graduation class she taught, she made such a question that every student should give Write a letter to their parents about their pre-graduation words. A few days later, the teacher received a letter from a parent who also enclosed a copy of a letter from her daughter to her mother. In her letter to her teacher, the Parents wrote: "I was in a mood of joy and sorrow when I read my daughter’s letter.His daughter is really grown up, and has understood her own way of thinking independently, Know how to protect only one side of their own spiritual world, but also understand that when their privacy is violated, should