最近读了一则“灭官烛看家书”的典故:北宋时期有位州官一天晚上接到京城上司来信,点上蜡烛阅读,然而读至一半,却把官家的蜡烛吹灭,点上自家的蜡烛再往下读。原来,信的后半部是关于他京城家属的情况,他认为这是私事,不能用官家的蜡烛。一位封建士大夫公私分明、廉洁自律的做法,令笔者敬 Recently read an allusions “Extinction official candle house book”: a state official during the Northern Song Dynasty received a letter from the capital boss one night, lit candles, but read half, but the official candle blowing out, Click on your own candle and read further. It turned out that the second half of the letter was about his relatives in the capital. He considered it a private affair and could not use official candles. A feudal official doctor of public-private, clean and self-discipline approach, so I respect