随着“80后”一代适婚年龄的到来,我国的离婚率也呈不断上升的趋势,据有关方面的不完全统计,80后结婚不到一年就离婚的人数甚至高达50%以上。而每一个小家庭解体的背后,至少要牵动四位父母再加上四位祖父母的神经,进而对他们的正常生活和健康状况造成严重的不良影响。人们在抱怨这些在过度宠爱中长大的“小皇帝”和“小公主”们习惯以自我为中心,缺乏包容和奉献精神,对待婚姻太草率的时候,做父母的是否也应反思自己对待子女婚姻的方式是否正确。如果父母还在将宠爱的惯性继续延伸到孩子的婚姻生活中,必然会对其婚姻造成严重的影响。 With the advent of the “80s” generation, the divorce rate in our country has also been on the rise. According to incomplete statistics, the number of people who divorce after 80 in less than a year is as high as 50% or more . Behind every family disintegration, at least the four parents and the four grandparents nerves are affected, which in turn has a serious adverse effect on their normal life and health status. When people complain that these “little emperors” and “little princesses”, who grew up in excessive favor, are accustomed to self-centeredness, lack of tolerance and dedication, and treat the marriage too harshly, whether parents should also Reflect on their own way of treating children’s marriage is correct. If parents continue to extend their favored inertia to their children’s marriage life, they will inevitably have a serious impact on their marriage.