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很多父母主张对孩子要有错必究。他们认为,如果对孩子的错误听之任之,纵容下去会出大问题。“宁可让孩子现在恨我,也不能让他将来恨我。”他们如是说。诚然,对孩子严格要求是必要的,但如果对孩子过于苛刻、严厉,势必会产生消极影响。其弊端主要表现为以下几方面:1、有损于儿童的自尊心和自信心。幼儿受认知能力和思维发展水平的限制,自我意
Many parents advocate that children have mistakes. They think that if children’s mistakes are left unchecked, there will be major problems in condoning them. “It would be better for the child to hate me now than to let him hate me in the future,” they said. It is true that strict demands on children is necessary, but if the children are too harsh, severe, it will inevitably have a negative impact. Its drawbacks are mainly manifested in the following aspects: 1, detrimental to children’s self-esteem and self-confidence. Children by the cognitive ability and thinking of the development of the restrictions, self-intention